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“Female domination has always
been an overall theme in my life.”
Muse Naadia is among the growing number of women who are fi nding success in the world
of “fi ndom,” or fi nancial domination. Using AVN Stars as her primary platform, Naadia meets
submissive men—and sometimes even women—online, develops relationships with them through
talking and texting and eventually becomes a domineering, controlling force in their lives.
Especially fi nancially.
Muse Naadia says she’s made as much as $5,000 in a single day on tips from her submissives,
about 70 percent of whom are white and range in age from 23-59.
Naadia, 27, knows a thing or two about money. She graduated from the University of Kansas fi ve
years ago with a business degree and then moved to Los Angeles, where she’s a self-employed
fi nancial advisor.
“My vanilla job,” she says, noting she focuses on her advising aff airs each day from 7 a.m. to 2
p.m. before turning her attention to her fi ndom business for the remainder of day.
Shortly after arriving in California, Naadia began exploring some of her kinks—particularly the
BDSM lifestyle. She started visiting dungeons and found a regular play partner. She discovered
she was an exhibitionist. The thought of traditional dating and relationships bored her.
It always had.
“Female domination has always been an overall theme in my life,” Naadia says. “It obviously
aff ects the way I view men. Most women meet someone and think, ‘Hmmm, maybe this is
someone I could date. They have an attractive personality.’ That type of stuff never enters my mind.
“I’ve got a very natural type-A personality. I’m very domineering. I really do believe that women
are better at everything.”
In August of 2019, Naadia’s life took an unexpected turn. During a road trip to Mexico to celebrate
a friend’s birthday, she happened upon a podcast called “WHOREable Decisions.”
That week’s topic was fi nancial domination. Naadia was fl oored.
She listened as the hosts talked about “cash meets,” which is when a sub meets his domme
at an ATM machine, hands her his credit card and lets her make a withdrawal of her choosing.
Then they part ways.
“That’s insane!” Naadia recalls thinking. She was also struck by the six-fi gure incomes women
claimed to be earning, either as dominatrixes who met clients in person or those who limited their
relationships to online.
“At that moment,” Naadia said, “I told myself, ‘This is what I’m supposed to do.’”
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