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Butt Toys for Boys and Girls
Aneros, the expert anal sex toy
company, believes that sex ed
specifically for anal sex is the way to
go. The company’s “learning center”
recommends toys for beginners to
“advanced” ass players.
“For those with prostates, the
final frontier for self-pleasure is
the prostate itself,” the site says.
“Although anal play is still a mostly
taboo subject, those who have yet
to explore the wondrous results of
prostate massage are missing out
on the Super-O, a show-stopping
climax that can only be reached
using tools made for prostate play.”
Anal prostate massagers and sex
toys, used with a partner or oneself,
can make men “harder, last longer,
and have better control.”
The Aneros guide teaches people
how to prepare for anal play,
what type of toys to get, and what
positions for “anal access” work the
best. The blow-by-blow instruction
for men includes “The best way to
massage your prostate is through
anal penetration. You can also get
some indirect stimulation by firmly
pressing the perineum [the area
between Anusville and Scrotumville]
up towards the head, but the fact
that you’re going through layers of
muscle and other tissue means that
the massage is less focused. It’s like
giving someone a back rub when
they’re wearing a sweater. It can feel
good, but it’s not the same thing. It
can take some practice to get used
to anal penetration, especially since
the muscles tighten up when you
feel stressed, anxious, or worried.”
Relax, it’s just anal sex.
Meanwhile, the folks over at
CalExotics.com take a fun approach
from Foria (ForiaPleasure.com). The
Foria Awaken CBD Arousal Oil is nice
too, but the Intimacy CBD Lubricant,
made with organic liquid coconut
with broad-spectrum hemp extract,
completely relaxes everything it
touches—and when doing anal,
you want your backdoor completely
relaxed. In a way, I like CBD lubes
better than the “desensitizing creams”
made with numbing lidocaine, which
feels like your ass just went to the
dentist, but some anal enthusiasts
swear by them.
Angela Watson, a sex toy reviewer
on DoctorClimax.com, says her two
top picks for desensitizing lubes are
Adam & Eve’s Desensitizing Gel and
Passion Lube Maximum Strength
Lubricant. “Give them both 10 to 15
minutes to kick in” she says, before
you stick anything up there.
Her five top picks for anal lubes:
Penchant Premium, Valm Ultra
Lasting Lube, Uberlube, Boy Butter,
and Shibari Personal Lubricant.
to marketing their sex toys, giving
their toys names like Booty Call Booty
Trainer, Chubby Exciter, and Vibrating
Tushie Trainer, which gives you an idea
of what you will be doing with these
things. They offer toys for beginners,
with kits that contain three different
sizes, and toys specifically designed
for women who want to do their man
up the butt, like the Pegging Probe,
a sex act that is gaining in popularity.
And their Silicone Lone Rider Dual
Penetrator is good for anyone who
wants to try all this anal play at home,
alone.
Lube Is Good
Lube is essential when having anal
sex, and it will prevent everyone from
googling “anal prolapse” at 2 in the
morning. Keep in mind that silicone
lube tends to degrade sex toys, oil-
based lube degrades condoms,
and water-based lube, although
compatible with everything, dries out
faster. But all lube is good lube when
you are venturing up the Hershey
Highway.
The trendiest lube these days is
CBD-infused lube. They are made
with various oils, but my favorite is
The Back End
And finally, as a general anal sex tip
to men and women, if you’ve never
done the back door before, take it
slow. You don’t want to do “surprise
anal attack” and rip someone a new
asshole. In the meantime, bone up
with a good book, such as Tristan
Taormino’s Ultimate Guide to Anal
Sex for Women or Bill Brent’s Ultimate
Guide to Anal Sex for Men.
Anka Radakovich is a certified
sexologist, sex educator and
author of three books on sexuality.
Follow her on Twitter: @ankarad.
Left, Satisfyer Plugs. Above, the
Eupho Syn Trident from Aneros.
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