Page 84 - AVN November 2019

“Our bodies and our sexual responses,
needs and desires change over time, and
sex can still be gloriously satisfying. ”
As I started watching the sex scenes in Senior Sex my
first thought was that I wasn’t used to watching a couple
this old having sex, because so many performers are
between 18 and 22.
But then as I continued watching them enjoy each
other and give each other orgasms (they are a couple
in real life, not performers), I realized how judgmental
everyone is, especially the most obsessive 20-something
Instagrammers, who re-touch every photo to make
themselves look perfect. The fact that these two couples,
one 72 and the other 66 and 69, were just focusing on
each other’s pleasure and orgasms and not even worried
about how they looked was completely liberating. One
of the reasons women (of all ages) avoid sex at different
times in their lives is because they are ashamed of their
imperfect or not-in-perfect-shape bodies. Nobody is
perfect. Body acceptance is the new sexual revolution.
It’s hard to relax during sex if you’re thinking about how
you need liposuction on your stomach.
The DVD succeeds in showing how a mature couple
(one who has been in a relationship for decades and
another who just met each other) communicate effectively
during sex. And now these two sexy senior couples are
my new favorite porn stars.
KEEP YOUR SEX LIFE FROM RETIRING
An issue that Joan Price brings up in Senior Sex is that
sex for post-menopausal women can become painful
because the vaginal opening can “close up” due to
hormonal changes and less lubrication. For every sexual
problem there is a solution. CalExotics has recently teamed
up with OB/Gyn Sherry A. Ross, M.D., and introduced
their “She-ology” line. Dallas Novelty is one of the first to
sell the line’s set of wearable vaginal dilators. Designed
to be used with water-based or coconut lube, the five-
piece set is waterproof and ergonomically curved, and it
includes a guide written by Ross. The two largest dilators
can accommodate a vibrator.
“With the right information,” says Joan Price, “Women
can have great sex into their 50s, 60s, 70s and beyond.”
This is good news, because when I’m 78 I want to have
sex like I’m 28. With a 28-year-old.
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